The seasonal Wed & Prosper Round Up for 2023!

So now that we have had a chance to breathe after a truly hectic 2023 wedding season, we figured it was about time to shed light on exactly just what we have been up to over the last 6 months and give you the seasonal Wed & Prosper round up for 2023!

But first we want to give all our couples (all 73 of them!)  a huge shout out and congratulations again- wow what weddings you all had, some epic moments and memories made!

So, the break down, here it goes….

We worked on 73 weddings in total, of which included:

16 weddings fully planned from start to finish, including every single logistic, layout, cutlery counts, power outlet, supplier, timetable, zoom meeting, you name it. If a wedding needs it, then we organised it!

Bamboo Shoots Photography

23 couples employed us for our on the day coordination service- we made sure every couples dream day went to plan. Which allowed them and their families to fully invest in the day, enjoy every second and therefore make more memories! Just ask the couples- it’s worth every penny!

26 of them had us for set up and styling. We made sure the couple’s vision and Pinterest board came to life, that everything looked perfect and ready to go, even when the weather took a turn! Have you thought about who will be setting things up the morning of your wedding, whilst you’re getting ready?

26 weddings fully set up and styled!

From moving tables and chairs into place, to laying tables, decorating the aisle and more, we loved getting to see the individual style of each of our couples.

52 weddings hired our props, from the green velvet sofa to gold candlestick holders, archways, and backdrops. All delivered and picked up again! Who needs a gym during wedding season huh!

3 weddings we provided full floristry for, from credit card buttonholes to huge installations and everything in-between. We did a lot more floristry across other weddings, but these 3 were our big ones! We hope to grow this area for 2024.

Bouquets & buttonholes

From making credit card button holes to larger installations, church flowers and everything in-between.

We can’t wait to create more floral in 2024!

These figures don’t include our Final Countdown service where we tied everything together in the last 6 weeks leading up to weddings, so that the couples could fully relax knowing everything was taken care of.

We also provided stationery design for 12 weddings- personalised menu cards for guests, table plans, signage, banners and more, all designed by Rachel and sent over to Ravenprint for printing.

So what are some of our favourite moments from this season (though we literally loved every single wedding we worked!)

Making large installations- Rachel loved balancing on ladders, making trees, chandeliers, ginormous hanging floral hoops and transforming venues, even if Carrie hated watching her being up so high! We can’t wait to get involved with more installations over the 2024 season, flower clouds, greenery everywhere and massive broken archways!

Brides and Grooms conducting speeches together…and including shots! A memorable speech for Carrie was when the Bride and Groom called out the suppliers-including the chef David Rogers from All About Catering out of the kitchen and then Carrie. The couple said thankyous to them personally and then joined them knocking back a shot! They did this to every supplier on site at that time! It made some great photos and got the guests going, ready for the evening celebrations to start.

 A huge jamon carved in front of the guests as they arrived, by Kev Hendy from Seasoned Kitchen and his chefs, teamed with sherry and a variety of fresh Island produce, and a DJ playing Ibiza vibes was a seriously cool moment within the historical ruins of Appldurcombe House. It was great to see this venue used in a different way from the norm. The lighting Provided by StageGear also set the tone of the evening perfectly.

Rain didn’t stop our play- one of our first weddings of the season was, well to be honest, a total washout! But… it ended up being so beautiful, with extra candles and lighting everywhere. We managed to solve all issues- at one point the catering tent was totally flooded and the poor staff were literally wading through water up to their knees!  And emergency call to SDC Marquees who provided extra covers and matting to keep the guests safe and dry ensured we could hide all this from the guests! The couple and guests still had the best day ever, even if we had to contend with many room changes and extra logistics!

under the ruins at appldurcombe

We are strong believers that lighting is an important part in creating the right atmosphere and vibe.

So, some points to mention from this season…

What we’ve learnt- Having an experienced caterer is possibly one of the most important parts to ensuring a successful wedding day. Cooking and plating food, for 100 plus people, at the same time, keeping it hot, to a high standard, often in a tent, in a field, in the middle of nowhere is quite a hard task- leave it to the pros sit back, sip your drink, concentrate on your speeches, and enjoy!

Our biggest advice- Always, always have a plan B!! This summer more than ever has shown that the British weather doesn’t always play ball.  If you have in your head what could happen then it won’t come as a shock or a surprise when it’s put into place. We also suggest you have an experienced on the day coordinator to put the plan b into place for you. Making it much more stress free for not only yourself and family, but also the suppliers on site that day.

What we hope for 2024- We would love to see some more beautiful venues become available for the island- especially venues perfect for the winter months with onsite accommodation-that’s not too much to ask for right? We also hope to meet and work with new suppliers – if there is anyone we haven’t met yet then please get in touch as we are always looking to expand our suppliers list for our clients. We should also mention that we are completely independent planners- what does this mean, I hear you say?! This means that we never take commission from any of our suppliers, we work for you as the couple to get you the best rates, the best service and the best fit for your day.

Trends to watch out for-

Local, seasonal, fresh cut, colourful flowers- we will be using local suppliers such as Carisbrooke flower farm for our fresh stems- follow us on this over the next season, I’m sure Rachel will be making it her 2nd home-she loves being in the flower fields.

Black chairs- we have been begging Isle of Wight Suppliers for clean cut elegant black chairs to hire for a cool monochrome look and we have heard on the grapevine that Coast and Country have taken this on board and will have them available for 2024 season- we can’t wait to see them in situ in their tri tent!

Artisan ice cream- Island Ices, the perfect cool (literally) addition to your welcome drinks or cocktail hour. Hand made to order rolled ice cream right in front of you, gives the added theatrical twist and entertainment value-guests can even give it a go themselves! Delicious and who doesn’t like an ice cream in one hand and a cocktail in the other! Apparently, they may be able to do Frosé (frozen rosé) as well! We are sold!

Wedding weekenders- We see this with our planning clients more and more. You have your whole family and closest friends on the beautiful Isle of Wight- so why not party all weekend! Friday night drinks and meet and greet at your accommodation? A restaurant for the boys and a separate one for the girls? Sunday brunch on a beach and sea dip? Boat hire? Private yoga session the morning of your wedding? Mini Sunday festival? Private chef? So many possibilities and we can help with it all! Hook up with The Smoking Lobster, The Compass Bar, The Hut, Isle of Wight Pilates or boat charters like EML Charters.

The dress- we see bows, pockets and splits in the skirts being big for 2024 and still staying as a strong vibe is the change up for brides, buy a dress which has 2 looks, a removable skirt or topper, taking your look from day to night.

Which takes us on perfectly to a major development in 2023, the opening of our sister company 1840 by Wed & Prosper, which opened its doors on the 17th September, which we’ve only just realised was the exact same date we started our wedding business 6 years ago! The new company being a 3am idea by Carrie which has now become a reality with a beautiful luxury bridal boutique.

a new bridal boutique has come to the isle of wight

So now we head to autumn and winter when the time comes to put all the plans together for 2024 and 2025 couples, get props spick and span, visit our venues and spend time reviewing the plans for the business.

We thank you for being on this journey with us, we are literally doing our dream job, it requires blood sweat and tears but we love it and look forward to 2024 season and beyond.

We need to thank our team, both our freelancers and staff for all their hard work this season, we couldn’t do it without them all.

 Carrie & Rachel

Harry Bradley Photography

The Isle of Wight or Sicily? How we make your wedding day vision come to life!

When couples come to us with fresh new ideas on how to use a venue, we get a little bit excited, and our minds start whizzing around with creative ways to make their vison come to life!

So, when J & F told us they wanted to make their wedding day at Appldurcombe house feel like we were in the Mediterranean or Sicily (which is where they later honeymooned) and for it to be one massive non-stop party…for 200 people may I add, we quickly set to work on everything needed to create their day!

With the Bride being a well-known interior designer-she had a vision for Appldurcombe that many others wouldn’t have thought of. The Drinks reception was to be held around the ruins instead of the front lawn-she loved the texture of the walls, the light that came through and how we could transform it into a alfresco bar. It was perfect for welcome drinks with the DJ spinning Ibiza beach club tunes, The Seasoned Kitchen serving up a giant leg of jamon with a carving station filled with freshly made breads, Isle of Wight Tomatoes, oils and more! Together with Mixologist IOW bar team pairing it with the perfect pour of crémant. The Party had started! Rachel built trees to look like they were growing out of the walls and intertwined with the stonework, using some silver birch trees hired from Busy Bee it made the building come alive. Transforming later as the sun went down surrounded by firepits and with drink flowing under the romantic lighting.

The lighting played a big role in creating the perfect atmosphere and vibe, it always does with any wedding or event, but this one needed to go to the next level! Carrie who planned every detail for the couple, teamed up with Stage Gear to design every festoon string and uplighter placement around the entire venue- many of it being the first time certain areas had been lit up before.

Making sure the guests got to experience every inch of the venue we had the stunning lemon drizzle cake from Miss Dotty’s on display in the ruins on one of our barrels. A quick top up of crémant as they walked through ready for the first lot of speeches, alfresco style. Speeches took place in an alcove of the ruins, which Rachel again dressed with vines and branches to create a focal point. Speeches ended with the couple cutting the cake so it could be whisked away and cut up ready to serve for dessert.

The feast would take place on the lawns with the view of the magnificent house set behind the Bride and Grooms place settings.  A festoon clad stretch tent perfectly placed and provided by Marble LDN made sure that all guests had a view of the front of Appldurcombe. This stretch is currently the only one of its kind on the Isle of Wight (which they have given us full access to BTW!) As guests walked down into the entrance of the tent, they were able to see The Seasoned Kitchen chefs at work behind the massive BBQ’s, turning over the lamb and smelling the taste sensation that was about to grace their plates!

Carrie who was coordinating the day made sure the couple got their big napkin waving entrance. The napkins were a special touch for the couple, as they were all sent over to the Island from Kenya by the Brides cousin. The bright colours together with the seashells, rope, vintage bottles, and natural greenery designed by the Bride and Rachel made the tables come to life. The Father and Mother of the bride made every place setting name card and the table plan with shells they had been collecting from Bembridge beach- and with 200 guests, that was a lot of collecting-but they looked amazing, and we are all about those personal touches! The rustic wooden tables and the cross-back chairs supplied by SDC fitted the brief perfectly and worked well in the stretch tent, and for the feast which was placed upon the tables.

The dinner finished with more speeches, including one by the bride - we always love this #girlpower! Her phone battery had died moments before, and so she had to come up with her speech on the spot, she totally nailed it! Whilst she was making her guests laugh, they were presented with a piece of the lemon drizzle wedding cake paired with a freshly shaken espresso martini from Isle of Wight Cocktail Co served by the Mixologist IOW team- the perfect way to end any meal! 200 espresso martinis out within 20 minutes is a serious operation and all suppliers worked together to make it happen smoothly. A conveyer belt of cocktails- Carrie and Rachel also got stuck in!

The Great Hall would be left for partying the night away filled with disco balls galore! It would also provide a plan B back up which thankfully wasn’t needed, but we will always make sure you have one just in case- (see our last blog about a previous wedding at Appldurcombe when it rained…hard! Why you need a wedding planner?)

As the sun went down, we left them to it, partying the night away with Hey Mr Wilson keeping the dance floor full. More drinks, including Local wight knuckle beers were being served up under the lights of the ruins and the firepits were creating a place for people who needed a timeout to catch up with friends away from the party.

We really, really enjoyed watching the outcome of all our hard work come together throughout the day. The vibe was exactly how it was supposed to be, the love and laughter throughout the day was heartfelt and the suppliers worked together to create one of our smoothest weddings to date- Go Team!

Photographers for the day and Images below by Adrift Visuals

FULL LIST OF SUPPLIERS FOR THIS WEDDING BELOW

Venue: Appldurcombe House

Planners, stylists, props and coordinators, greenery and tree building: Wed & Prosper

Stretch tent: Marble LDN

Stretch tent lighting: Marble LDN

Furniture, fridge trailers, luxury loos and catering tent: SDC Marquees

Power, lighting and PA equipment: Stage Gear Rentals

Catering: The Seasoned Kitchen

Bar: IOW Mixologist

Cocktail bar: IOW Cocktail Co

Flowers: The Flowering Cactus

Guest transport: Southern Vectis

Cake: Miss Dotty’s

DJ: Hey Mr Wilson

Photographer: Adrift Visuals

Firepits: Luke Churches

Catering equipment: Coast and Country

A Marquee Wedding, what does it involve?

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We recently planned a very large marquee set up at Nunwell House with Grays Marquees and were onsite from the first peg going into the ground right through to the final lining going into place. We learnt a lot! Firstly, erecting a marquee is really hard work and takes a lot of man power. Secondly the weather is very important!

Make it stand out

Marquees allow you to really personalise your wedding day, the style, layout and décor can be bespoke to you.

A marquee wedding takes a lot of logistical planning, have you got the right size and shape for your day, what lighting do you want (we strongly recommend Stage Gear for all your lighting and power needs), furniture choices and layout, do you have the space to have a dining zone, a bar zone and a dance floor set up for the whole day, if not who is going to move furniture to get the dance floor ready? What power does your entertainment, caterer, and lighting need – getting the right size generator is crucial. Then there is the order that the set up will happen, you can’t have furniture set up before lighting and you need a generator onsite before the lighting. There is a lot to think about.

Marquees allow you to really personalise your wedding day, the style, layout and décor can be bespoke to you, whether you go traditional or clearspan any colour scheme will work. We have been involved in a few larger scale marquee wedding set ups this season and its been super fun working on site ,setting them up and coordinating them. Creating a completely tailor made wedding venue for each couple, wanting to put their own individual stamp on their big day.

For this most recent wedding we spent 2 full days up ladders dressing lights with 400m of ivy and building a tree in the middle of the bar, a very labour-intensive job but stepping back to see what we had achieved was amazing. Then when you add in the furniture, coloured glassware, personalised touches like menu cards and hand printed napkins it really brings it all to life. Going back to the furniture and tables-who will be getting it all in place and laying the tables and playing items around the marquee, its not like other venues were there maybe a venue manager on duty. But Guess what-we can help with all of this!

Who is helping you?

Who will help you with furniture set up and movement through out the day?

It blows our mind how our fabulous local caterers work so effectively in basically just a tent in a field next to the marquee and produce such exceptional food. For this set up we worked with All About Catering and they really know what they’re doing, serving high end restaurant food piping hot to 165 guests in a marquee in October is certainly not easy. The guests were over the moon with their meals and the perks of the job is when we also get to taste the delicious food!

Do you need extra staff for the bar if you are stocking it yourselves?

Who will help you with pack down the next day? Do you really want to wake up as newlyweds after all the excitement (and probably with some kind of hangover!) to then have to dismantle everything and clean up and get rid of rubbish. We can offer pack down services and employee the correct services such as a clean up crew for you.

Marquee weddings are hard work, they take time to plan, but with the right suppliers they are so very worth the effort.

Adam Jervis Photography

We work with a number of marquee suppliers and other local suppliers who know how to make your wedding day successful.

If you need help planning, a bit of guidance along the way, some props or a stylist to make it look amazing or a coordinator who will make sure your day runs how you want it and looks after you and your guests then drop us an email at hello@wedandprosper.co.uk

2021 Wedding Season Round Up

Wow, since coming out of various lockdowns, we suddenly blinked and came to the end of the 2021 wedding season. Somehow completing 61 weddings between May and November. 21 of those involved on the day coordination, 18 fully styled and set up, 3 fully planned, 7 bell tent set ups, and nearly all 61 wanting hire items….it still amazes me that we’ve managed to work part time jobs through super stressful times and juggle young children, family, and general life!

61 weddings!

Completed between May-November 2021

We have been resting up a little and catching up with paperwork and planning for our 2022 season! But we suddenly realised we haven’t written a single blog post about any of these awesome weddings or shared any images. So, let’s do a quick 2021 round up shall we?! (click on images to take you to the photographer)

Wild bright flowers filling our archways in huge converted barns full of fairy lights, haybales and rustic tables. Neon pink signs from Neon Junki and gold edgy modern vibes with graphic prints in old historical ruins. A Gothic 80’s alternative wedding, which included a super cool dip dyed Lucy Can’t Dance wedding dress, black jumpsuits for the bridesmaids and cans of Corona to sip during the ceremony in a boutique self-sufficient Manor House.

We’ve covered most bases and themes this season and we have loved watching couples put they’re own stamp on the various venues across the Island-we’ve even had gold dinosaurs and leafy botanicals making an appearance in centrepieces! It’s refreshing to see just how different each wedding day can be.

It’s safe to say that the most popular colourway choice was natural greens and crisp whites with foliage lined tables, hanging floral installations providing the added wow factor, teamed with clean elegant white linens and cut-glass candle sticks holders. Perspex signage also made a big appearance. A modern take on the more traditional set up, with a touch of Bridgerton vibes.

Private houses and grounds have been popular on the Island this year with Marquees from Coast and Country or Yurts from Island Yurts going up to set the scene. We were also lucky enough to fully plan a wedding (within 7 weeks start to finish!) at Gatcombe House. Unfortunately, shortly after the house went up for sale so there wont be any more weddings held there for some time. East Afton Farmhouse has been our second home, its new events barn has been such a fantastic edition to go alongside the beautiful house and rustic barn.

Archways went out on nearly every hire list. With a growing trend of more couples getting legally married before the day to then be blessed in front of family and friends at their venue. We also grew our stock to accommodate and introduced a new hexagonal arch to our list. Our triangle, and vintage ladder archway stayed popular, and we saw them dressed in various ways. The handmade macramé backdrop featured behind many couples blessings and ceremonies as well.

Chilled seating areas, kids’ zones, and photo backdrops we are here for, this trend is definitely here to stay for the next few seasons. So much so that we have purchased more vintage sofas and seating which will be ready for hire for the 2022 season.

Weddings are a long day and though fun for adults-mainly due to the alcohol consumption! They can be a bit overwhelming and somewhat boring for the kids- we’ve loved setting up kids areas this season and making kids activity packs for them whilst they sit at the tables for food. We can also highly recommend The Sleepover Club for kids bell tents totally set up, providing a safe area for the kids to play, have fun and well just be kids! We unfortunately said goodbye to our bell tents at the end of the season to make room for more hire items in our storage! The adult kids certainly loved our Bride vs Groom football tables and garden games! If there are any games or ideas you have seen that you think we should add to our stock then please drop us a message.

With the lockdowns giving some couples more time away from work and more time to plan smaller details of their big day it meant that we saw a bigger trend in home made favours for guests to take home with them. From handmade soy candles that smelt amazing filling venues with decadent scents. Sloe gins, spirits and home brewed beers bottled and personalised with name tags. Packets of seeds to grow the same wedding flowers at home to remind loved ones of the day. These are just a few ideas we saw in action, but these little touches were so thought out and helped to create that extra little special touch.

Did someone say Cocktails?! Cocktail hour seemed to be a big trend on the Island this year. The perfect way to get the guests out of the way whilst staff cleared down tables and re arranged the venue ready for the evening party antics. With the introduction of The Isle of Wight Cocktail Co throughout lockdown delivering delicious cocktails to doorsteps Island wide, we thought let’s get them involved in Island Weddings! The cocktails not only taste amazing but also look bang on trend. Screen printed amber brown bottles and handmade on the Island-it makes a great talking point for guests while chatting with a martini glass in hand. It also creates a bit of extra theatre with either staff shaking cocktails and pouring the perfect tipple or getting guests involved to shake it  themselves. SHAKE IT, POUR IT, DRINK IT! We set up some awesome insta worthy cocktail displays and they certainly became a talking point-people always congregate around bars or booze-so why not make them stand out and look epic.

did someone say cocktail hour?!

Shake it, Pour it, Drink it!

Isle of Wight Cocktail Co can provide pre mixed cocktails.

We loved coordinating one wedding which did a “bring a bottle of spirit instead of a wedding gift”. It’s different, fun and cost effective. The couple then provided all mixers and staff to serve up the drinks-it meant that there was no left-over warm table wine and needless to say the party definitely got started-there is always one that pushes the limits and cracks open the shots!

We’ve actually supplied a lot of bar staff to this year’s weddings-so if you’re wanting to stock your own bar, but need the staff to serve-message us, Rach is also cocktail trained and has been in the hospitality game for many years so can give plenty of advice. She even had Carrie pulling pints and mixing up the drinks this year whilst coordinating-talk about multi tasking!

Food glorious food…. We have been spoilt this wedding season with the caterers feeding us the most delicious food while working 15-hour straight shifts nibbling our way through all the menus! From sit down elegant 3 course meals, buffets, food trucks, platters, grazing tables, charcuterie cones, snack stations-we’ve seen it all. Couples are really starting to work the food around their guests and think about what people would most appreciate at what time in the day. But also, what will work around the vibe they are trying to achieve over the day and throughout the venue. We love a good snack station set up-so simple cheap and always goes down a treat. Who doesn’t love a hamper filled with childhood crisps-the perfect solution for soaking up some alcohol? Staff at one summer wedding walked about with mini ice cream pots and homemade boozy ice lollies to cool the guests down! An ice pole strawberry daiquiri is a win from us!

Cake Cake Cake! We love cake! We safe to say have some super talented bakers here on our little Island. They cleverly created a vast array of different cake designs this year. We loved the challenge of displaying the wedding cakes in different ways, making sure they took centre stage. From balancing them on barrels to dressing tables and crates. Our vintage gold tea trolley was used and abused lots this past season and the standard log slice cake base was dressed up in numerous ways. Once again, the donut walls remain a firm favourite -Rachel actually had to make another one for the collection as so many people wanted to hire them out! Teamed with our collection of glass jars and plates to set up sweet stations, cookie and party ring platters and even providing Colin the Caterpillar somewhere to rest-Colin made many appearances this year!

We have worked in some brilliant venues and the most gorgeous private households' and grounds this year. We have seen just how hard the suppliers have worked to bounce back after lockdowns and how they have overloaded their schedules to fit all the Covid couples into their diary’s without disappointing anyone. We’ve worked with some amazing suppliers and photographers and met some new ones who have become our friends. We are super proud of the Isle of Wight wedding world this year and cant wait for next year.

We wish all our couples, future clients and amazing suppliers a very Merry Christmas and look out for our next blog - What will 2022 look like.

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND Happy new year!

Lets see what 2022 brings in the Isle Of Wight wedding world!

New name…same us❤️

New logo design by Becca Kidd Designs.

We have been discussing for a while about the idea of new names, logos and rebranding. Then Covid happened and it made it even more clear that it was now or never.

We loved Proper Vintage, it will always hold a huge place in our hearts, after all, it's where our little family business started 4 years ago. Brand new on the Isle of Wight wedding scene, we had set ourselves big goals with even bigger aspirations.

We started small, with where we felt there was a gap in the market-rustic/vintage decor and prop hire.

Over the last couple of years we have grown, pushed,and developed ourselves so much. Through sweat, tears and determination we have built our business up as well as the services we provide. Times have changed in the wedding industry and we have evolved with it. We now offer so much more than vintage wedding props.

With that in mind it was time for change. Proper Vintage just didn't tell our story anymore of who we are or what we do. Clients started to get confused with why we were called Proper Vintage, when we had just planned and styled from start to finish their more modern contemporary wedding with our on trend decor clean cut decor.

Now it's not saying we don't still love a rustic, quirky tying of the knot. But instead it's simply stating that we can cater for all tastes, budgets and needs. Whether it’s full wedding planning, styling or hiring a few items from us-we have all bases covered.

So out with the old (pun was definitely intended!) and in with the new.

Wed & Prosper

Planning, Styling, Hire.

Candle Light Romance Winter Wedding

Day 1 of Positive Vibes Only

WHAT WE DO.

Real life wedding inspo.

Katie and John's winter wedding oozed candle light romance . The trendy but homely interior of Weston Manor House in Totland created the perfect setting for the vibe we wanted to create, especially once their grand fireplaces were lit. Katie expressed how she wanted the rooms filled with simple white pillar candles and greenery to bring the room to life with a wintery feel. This wedding proved to be quite a challenge as the main room had to be changed 3 times. Ceremony, banquet to the evening soirée keeping the same theme throughout. Any styling ideas we had needed to be easily adaptable and quick to change over. Large foliage flower instillations from The Flower Garden provided a large part of the décor, wrapping them in fairy lights to bring them and the room to life. We kept the aisle simple with a variety of lanterns (provided by inspired events) logs from the manors garden, tealights, and greenery and of added texture and warmth with the faux fur skins. We didn't want to take anything away from the room but instead showed off its features and incorporated its interior. Anything we placed on the aisle or windows was then reused again as table décor once we turned the room into its banquet setting. The tables were laid with personalised printed napkins and cute little succulents as favours. The guests enjoyed homemade pies and sausage and mash provided by The Events CO. The biggest challenge was disguising the large kitchen island. Hiding it wasn't really an option so instead we agreed to make a feature out of it. Creating a large and luxurious display perfect to showoff the cake made by Frostbite Bakery. We created different levels and heights with various log slices, crates, and candles as well as our vintage glass bottles filled with greenery and flower cuttings. It became a real focal point of the day and an area all guests seemed to congregate around especially when the hot chocolate and cookie bar was opened later in the evening. Elsewhere as the wedding was towards the end of November a Christmas tree was placed in the large entrance hall together with the order of the day and guestbook/gifts table. The bride also had a specialised children's corner set up together with a nanny to keep the kids entertained throughout the day. Later that evening the guests enjoyed music provided by the groomsmen and paella made on site by Cinz and Rex of Smoking Lobster and hosts of the house. We provided on the day coordination which included changing the rooms over and all the styling. We left the party at 10pm that night as they were enjoying drinks and marshmallows with sparklers around a firepit outside the front of the house.

We LOVE winter weddings!

Photos: Robert Longford Photography

Venue: Weston Manor House

Cake: Frostbite Bakery

Lanterns: Inspired Events

Main meal: The events co.

Evening catering and bar: The Smoking Lobster

Styling, set up and Coordination: Proper Vintage IOW

The Venue with a view......

Looking for a wedding venue? We have uncovered an absolute gem. Although we live on an island there are very few venues with a sea view, Beldornie Tower offers this and more.

The property has been completely renovated, providing enviable photo opportunities for your special day. The lawns look straight out over the Solent, with plenty of space for a marquee or a yurt to host your reception. The stunning decked area would make the most amazing location for cocktails overlooking the sea. Inside there is the most beautiful drawing room which would make the perfect space for your ceremony. The garden room with doors out on to the lawn could be used as a bar area or for smaller gatherings. The house also has a self contained apartment which would make a wonderful place for you to get ready with your squad, and then spend your first night as a married couple.

We are honoured to be the exclusive wedding coordinators for this venue and know this is a very special venue and can’t wait to see the first wedding!

Beldornie can meet the current Covid regulations so intimate weddings are very possible, as are larger weddings once we are back to the wedding parties we know and love.

Our recent photoshoot gives a little taste of what this elegant property could offer.

Images courtesy of Holy Cade Photography

Are Intimate Weddings the future?

The effects of Covid have sadly made us adapt to a new world and new norm. (I’m still forever walking back to the car in a hurry after forgetting my mask, it brings a whole new meaning to the phrase walk of shame!)
The weddings and events industry has been hit hard and still yet to really resume, many of our gorgeous couples have already postponed their day by a whole year or more. Alongside this with the most recent review from the government still only allowing up to
30 guests….we find ourselves asking, will intimate weddings be the future?
We have found many of our couples in a logistical nightmare trying to switch dates that agree with venues, suppliers and friends and family. Many have had to lose out on something and can’t have all they wanted. Some have taken it in their stride and thought screw you Covid, I’ve got more time to save up for bigger and better!
For other couples it’s made them question what marriage means to them
and rethink the whole reason behind their initial plans of a huge party, scaling back dramatically or postponing the reception but still getting hitched so that they can become legally bound on paper.
For any newly engaged couple its no surprise that they’ve delayed or been scared off making any set plans and many have mentioned how it’s taken some of the fun and excitement out of the planning stages. Venues haven’t been able to give the usual grand tours,
the usual visits to wedding fairs to get their inspiration and meet and chat to suppliers obviously haven’t been running, and the big shopping trips with the squad have been a challenge, making choosing that dress more stressful than usual.
Don’t get me wrong, suppliers
are doing everything they can to make sure they can still provide some kind of service, adapt their techniques and make it as special as possible, such as virtual tours, virtual wedding fairs, and privately booked appointments. But as suppliers ourselves we can still feel that slight mist of disappointment
in the air.
Which is where the idea of intimate weddings has become a new option for many, it’s made couples question what actually getting married means to them and as for many of us through this pandemic make us question what do we really want?
Weddings of under 50 guests, It just doesn’t seem as scary or risky (or pricey!) For a start you have the family and friends you both really want there to celebrate with you, the expectation from family that you can invite endless people you barely know is removed, one less thing to stress about! Budgets can be tailored to spend on the things important to you, personal touches, go all out on the food and drink or have more for that dream honeymoon. Have you ever found yourself thinking how will I speak to all my guests, the truth is you won’t at a large wedding, it’s impossible but at an intimate wedding, it’s very possible.
Small or big in numbers your wedding can be as spectacular, fun or as quiet as you want. Whatever you decide whether that be postpone for the big gathering, go for it intimate style, all that matters is you have found love and will marry the person of your dreams.
Covid has made us all reassess who we are and what we want and that’s a personal decision for you as a couple.
Intimate weddings were generally out of the ordinary, maybe they will be become the new normal, for a little while at least.

If you want help planning your wedding, working through the regulations, finding suppliers, styling your ceremony or reception or simply want to hire props then The PV Girls are here to help.
 

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